The New Malaysia

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Balancing Business And Family

As an entrepreneur,you life can be hectic at best.Your business is the realization of a dream.Your hard work and persistence have come to life in the form of your business.Working for yourself is many people's fantasy and it should bring you great satisfaction to know that you now only answer to you.This is all you've ever wanted,so you must be happy.

Ask yourself this:

what was your ultimate goal in starting your business?
You may respond that you want to acheive independence from bosses,to have unlimited income potential or to set your own hours.These answer all essentially mean one thing;you went to business for yourself with ultimate goal of being happy.But, spending hour upon hour on your business is not going to make for a happy family life.Finding a healthy balance between your business and your family life can be extremely challenging,but it is an essential in order to realize your ultimate goal of happiness.How do you find time for family when your business occupies so much on your day.

The following are some tips to help you to achieve the ever elusive goal of achieving a healthy balance:

1.Create a schedule
Schedule your work time as well as your family time.Keep a calendar or agenda with this schedule and stick to it.If you are feeling overwhelmed and think that just a bit more work time will help,think again.At the end of a long work day,you are in probability feeling tired and frustrated.Taking a long things with fresh eyes the next morning will help you to complet the job properly.Time away from the task will help to rejuvenate you.

2.Prioritize
Your family is you number one one priority,and don't forget it.When making a your schedule,always plan family time first and include some fun ideas in the schedule.Schedule a trip to shopping mall,an evening at the kid's favorite restaurant or just taking the kids at home.Don't forget to schedule some time alone with your couple.A weekly date night will do wonders for you relationship.Even if it's just enjoying a rented movie and popcorn after the kids are in bed.Anything will do as long as it's not already a part of your normal routine.

3.Be sure to have some time left for yourself
This is often most difficult time to schedule.How do you find time for yourself with all you already do in the day>on work days,this could be as simple as 15 minutes bubble bath or curling up a good book before bed.On your days off,take a walk for an hour,or go on a bike ride.Be sure to allow your couple at the same.He or she needs time alone time as well.

4.Make to-do lists
In order to make the most of your workday,make lists and cross things off as you accomplish them.Being a busy entrepreneur,it may sometimes seem though you don't have enough time in a day to allocate to all the jobs you have to do.You will be amazed at how such a simple thing as making a to-do list will keep you on track.Once you have crossed off most the tasks on your list you will feel proud of all that you have accomplished in the day.Remember though,if you are not finished your list at the end of your scheduled workday,those leftover tasks will have to go on tomorrow's list.

5.Learn to delegate
You may find it difficult to let go of even some of the smallest tasks.If you don't want your business to run your life,you will have to learn to let go of some duties.Start with delegating little tasks and build from there.Once you have built up enaough trust in the person you delegating to,you can start delegating a little more.If you have employees,use them,that is what they are there for.

Delegating will go a long way in allowing you to work more efficiently.It can also give you more family time.In fact,deligating chores in your house-hold will accomplish at the same time.

Remember you need to work on your family in order to make it a success just as you do your business.Achiveing a healthy balance is not easy,but once you do,the rewards will oput-weight any of the hard work you put into it.

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